If you’ve been on TikTok recently, you’ve likely seen the story that’s divided the internet: a bride washed off her makeup artist’s (MUA) work just 20 minutes before her first look and then posted a TikTok about it. The MUA responded with her own video, and the drama has sparked a heated debate. You can check out the full story here and here.
While the internet picks sides, we’re here to help brides learn from this situation and avoid similar issues when planning their weddings. Your wedding day should be a celebration, not a battlefield. (And no one wants their big day to be remembered as a TikTok soap opera.) Here are some tips to ensure that your beauty prep goes smoothly and aligns with your vision.
1. Schedule a Trial Run
One of the most crucial steps in your wedding beauty prep is booking a makeup trial. This appointment allows you and your MUA to collaborate and perfect the look you’re envisioning for your big day. It’s the ideal time to:
- Test products for skin sensitivity.
- Communicate your preferred style (natural, glam, “I woke up like this but better”, etc.).
- Make adjustments without the pressure of wedding-day timelines.
Skipping this step can lead to unmet expectations and unnecessary stress—and let’s be real, nobody wants a “makeup meltdown” to trend online.
2. Communicate Clearly and Respectfully
Whether it’s through a Pinterest board or a verbal description, articulate your vision as clearly as possible. Share specific likes and dislikes during the trial and before your wedding day. If something feels off, address it respectfully with your MUA. Remember, they’re professionals who want you to feel confident and beautiful—not like you’ve just lost a paintball match.
3. Trust the Process—But Know Your Boundaries
Makeup can look different in progress versus the finished product. Trust your MUA’s expertise and give them time to complete the look. That said, you have every right to speak up if you’re not comfortable or happy with the results. Doing so during the appointment, rather than after, can save everyone from unnecessary drama (and maybe save your MUA from needing their own “venting” TikTok).
4. Prepare for Contingencies
Sometimes, even with the best preparation, things don’t go as planned. If you’re unhappy with your makeup on the day of, have an emergency kit ready with essentials like makeup remover, foundation, and brushes. That way, you can make adjustments without escalating tensions. Bonus: It’s also helpful if you cry tears of joy during the ceremony—or tears of relief when everything finally goes as planned.
5. Respect Each Other’s Professionalism
Your MUA is an artist who has likely spent years honing their craft. If you’re dissatisfied, expressing your concerns directly and privately is far more effective than taking to social media. Remember, mutual respect goes a long way in creating a positive experience for both parties. (And keeps your wedding out of TikTok’s “For You” drama zone.)
6. Take the High Road
In the age of TikTok and Instagram, it’s tempting to air grievances online. However, consider the long-term impact of publicizing conflicts. Would you want a single moment of frustration to overshadow the joyous memories of your wedding day? Focus on resolving issues offline whenever possible—because your grandkids will care more about your love story than a viral makeup debacle.
The Finishing Touch
The viral bride vs. MUA story is a cautionary tale about communication and expectations. By taking steps to prepare, communicate, and respect everyone involved, you can ensure your wedding day—and the memories you create—remain drama-free.
If you’re looking for professional wedding photography and videography to capture your big day, our team at With This Ring is here to make every moment unforgettable. Contact us to learn more about our packages and services.
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