One of the biggest decisions couples face when planning their wedding timeline is whether to do a first look before the ceremony or wait to see each other at the altar. As wedding videographer, we’ve filmed both approaches and can confidently say—there’s no wrong choice! But there are some key differences that might help you decide which one is right for your day. Let’s break it down.

What Is a First Look?

A first look is a private, pre-ceremony moment where the couple sees each other for the first time, away from the crowd. It’s often set up in a scenic location with just the photographer and videographer capturing the emotions as they unfold.

Why Couples Love It:

• More intimate emotions. Without the pressure of guests watching, couples can fully express their reactions—whether it’s tears, laughter, or both.
• Helps ease nerves. Many couples feel anxious before walking down the aisle, and a first look can provide a calming moment together.
• More time for portraits. A first look allows for wedding party and couple’s portraits before the ceremony, freeing up more time for celebrating after.
• Better lighting for video. If your ceremony is later in the day, a first look ensures we capture beautifully lit footage before the sun sets.

Possible Downsides:

• If you’re dreaming of that dramatic aisle moment with your partner seeing you for the first time, a first look could lessen that impact.
• Some couples prefer to keep with tradition and wait until the ceremony for the big reveal.

Waiting for the Aisle Moment

The classic approach—seeing each other for the first time as you walk down the aisle. This choice builds suspense and creates a cinematic, emotional moment in front of all your loved ones.

Why Couples Love It:

• The ultimate romantic moment. There’s something magical about locking eyes for the first time as you walk down the aisle.
• Follows tradition. If you’ve always envisioned a classic ceremony, this keeps that traditional element intact.
• A raw, organic reaction. Some couples feel the emotions hit harder when the moment is happening in real time.

Possible Downsides:

• You won’t have as much time for portraits before the ceremony, meaning you’ll need to carve out time afterward.
• Nerves can be higher—some couples feel a first look helps them relax before the ceremony.

A Videographer’s Take: Which One Films Better?

Honestly? Both options create beautiful footage! It depends on the mood and style you want for your wedding video.

• First looks are intimate and cinematic, often allowing for soft, close-up emotional shots.
• Aisle moments bring high energy and drama, with the added reaction of your guests in the background.

If you’re torn, you can combine both! Some couples do a first look but still save certain details (like the dress or veil) for the aisle moment to maintain some surprise.

No matter what you choose, your wedding video will capture the love and excitement of your day in the most authentic way possible.

Which moment are you leaning toward? Let’s chat about how we can make it unforgettable on film!